Guiding Light Psychic Tarot Readings

TJ Higgs - Psychic Medium Tracy Higgs Distant learning. Alternative spiritual therapies KSC Crystals Psychic Workshops Bengalrose Healing Elizabeth Francis - Psychic Medium Lorrain Violet Moon Kim Barden Hypnotherapy BWRT Spiritual Energetics
Occult Science Study Group @ Rosefolk
Date: 28-Mar-2024 7:00 PM

Visit Site
Address: Online Virtual Event, , United Kingdom
Dreaming With Plants
Date: 13-Jun-2024 3:00 PM

Visit Site
Address: Whetstone Cottage, Broughton-in-Furness, Cumbria, LA20 6AE, United Kingdom
Monmouth MBS Show
Date: 23-Mar-2024 10:00 AM

Visit Site
Address: Bridges, Wonastow Road Monmouth , NP25 5AS, United Kingdom
Book launch for "Human Being" book
Date: 05-Apr-2024 7:30 PM

Visit Site
Address: The Balmoral Centre, Salisbury Avenue, Southend-on-Sea, Essex, SS0 7AU, SS0 7AU, United Kingdom
Purple Feather Events MBS Fair Lawford
Date: 06-Apr-2024 10:00 AM

Visit Site
Address: Venture Centre Bromley rd. Lawford Manningtree Essex, CO11 2JE, United Kingdom
Mansfield Mind Body Spirit Show
Date: 06-Apr-2024 10:00 AM

Visit Site
Address: John Fretwell Complex Sookholme rd Mansfield NG19 8LL, NG19 8LL, United Kingdom
Mansfield Mind Body Spirit Show
Date: 07-Apr-2024 10:00 AM

Visit Site
Address: John Fretwell Complex Sookholme rd Mansfield Notts NG19 8LL, NG19 8LL, United Kingdom
QUANTUM HYPNOTHERAPY TRAINING (Past Life, Between Lives, Future Lives, Spirit Release, Healing)
Date: 12-Apr-2024 1:00 PM

Visit Site
Address: Online Virtual Event, , United Kingdom
The Big Purple Wellness Weekend
Date: 11-May-2024 11:00 AM

Address: Merrist Wood College Holly Lane Worplesdon, GU3 3PE, United Kingdom
New Lemuria Calling with Hope, Grace & Healing
Date: 18-May-2024 2:00 PM

Visit Site
Address: The Henge Shop, High Street, Avebury, Marlborough, UK, SN8 1RF, United Kingdom
The Scottish Spiritualist Seminar 2024
Date: 21-Jun-2024 1:45 PM

Address: Stirling Court Hotel, Stirling University, Stirling FK9 4LA Scotland, FK9 4LA, United Kingdom
Learn Kinetic Chain Release (KCR) in Bath Somerset
Date: 29-Jun-2024 9:00 AM

Visit Site
Address: Well Bath, Woolley Lane, Charlcombe, Bath, England UK, BA1 8BA, United Kingdom
Mind Body and Spirit Well Being Charity Day
Date: 29-Jun-2024 10:00 AM

Visit Site
Address: Stock Village Hall(opposite Greenwood’s Spa) Common Road Ingatestone CM4 9NF , CM4 9NF, United Kingdom
MIND BODY SOUL EVENT
Date: 28-Jul-2024 10:30 AM

Visit Site
Address: The Lismoyne Hotel 45 Church Road Fleet Hants , GU51 4NE, United Kingdom
Shropshire Wellbeing Festival
Date: 28-Sep-2024 10:30 AM

Visit Site
Address: Shropshire Wildlife Trust, Abbey Foregate, Shrewsbury, SY2 6AH, SY2 6AH, United Kingdom
LIVING THE LAW OF ATTRACTION RETREAT BALI
Date: 29-Sep-2024 5:00 PM

Visit Site
Address: Narasoma Retreat Centre, Jalan Monkey Forest, Gang Beji No35, Ubud 80571, Bali, Indonesia, Ubud 80571, Indonesia
RESTORE, ENERGISE & CREATE RETREAT WITH THE LAW OF ATTRACTION AND MEDITATION, SNOWDONIA, UK
Date: 07-Feb-2025 4:00 PM

Visit Site
Address: Trigonos, Plas Baladeulyn, Nantlle, Caernarfon, Wales, LL54 6BW, LL54 6BW, United Kingdom

International Version
Select County

Psychic Workshops IPHM Side - Therapists Accrediation Spiritual Events UK - Psychics For Hire Theta Healing Academy Psychic Paula VgoriPsychic Paula Vgori SMALL 12 MBS Web Design - Mind Body Soul Gathering of Minds Peaceful LivingLuna Chakra and Aura Certified Course Pauline Clairvoyant Medium Book this spot (SM29)






[ View My Events ]
  +Add Event +Add Article +Add Classified +Add To Directory
Search
EnjoyHolistic.com - Create your own dedicated holistic and spiritual page listing.

12 Ways to Use Your Relationships to Realize Real Life

By:Guy Finley
Date: Mon,27 Feb 2017
Submitter:Guy Finley
Views:7747

View Related

Best-Selling Self-Realization Author Guy Finley

The greatest, most abundant resource on planet Earth is also its least understood and utilized. Its unlimited supply is found virtually everywhere, anytime, and under all circumstances, even though few recognize its real value. What is this most precious collective resource? It is our relationships.

Consider these truths: It is within relationships that we grow as individuals in everything valuable, because it is through them that we become stronger and wiser, allowing us to realize a love that transcends our unseen self-limiting self-interests. Yet, even though we may acknowledge the existence of this path to self-perfection, the essential mystery of exactly how to use this endless resource remains obscured.

What do we have to do to change the balance sheet of our lives so that for every measure of impatience and intolerance there may be at least an equivalent sum of compassion and consideration? How do we learn to use our relationships with others to realize a new kind of relationship with ourselves wherein we are able to discover that who we really are is all we need to be?

Your willingness to work your way through the twelve special practices of the following inner exercise -- to strive to employ these higher ideals in your relationships with others -- will reward you with the Real Life your heart longs for. The main thrust of these special practices is to show you how to use each developing moment in your relationships with family, friends, and coworkers to consciously change your relationship with yourself. Only a moment's consideration will show us the wisdom of this unusual inner-work.

With few exceptions, the usual focus of our attention and interactions with others is centered on our self and the fulfillment of its desires. "How do I feel about you?" "What do I want from him?" or "When will she realize that I know best?" In other words, the mindset of the false self, under most circumstances, is: "Me first." By forever placing its own considerations before considering any other, it remains the master of its own universe, even if all that revolves through it is its own imagined importance.

The great inner life lesson to be learned in working with the following twelve suggested practices is that what we put first in our lives is our first relationship with life. And it is this relationship that secretly determines the nature of all others in our lives. Through our willingness to work at placing our usual self in "second place," we agree not only to change the way we see our relationships, but we have also agreed to be changed by the truths our new relationships will inevitably show us about us.

1. Be as alert to what you can do to help someone else in any given moment as you are critically aware of others for failing to notice your immediate needs.

2. Let anyone who wants to psychologically defeat you have his victory, and do it without revealing that you chose to give him the last word.

3. In any moment of consequence, be as willing to see that you may be wrong as you are convinced that you are always right.

4. Do whatever act of kindness you may be moved to do for another person without drawing attention to your deed, or to yourself for having done it.

5. Look for ways to make moments work to the advantage of someone else besides yourself.

6. When gathered with friends or family, instead of competing for the spotlight, voluntarily help to shine it on someone whom you know its light will emotionally lift or otherwise encourage.

7. Even when you know that you are solidly in the right, rather than rub it in, sacrifice your righteousness.

8. Should a sarcastic or unkind remark pop into your mind to tease, torment, or in any way "trash" another person, try swallowing it first to see how it tastes before you dish it out.

9. Whatever it might be when your "moment in the sun" arises -- such as being acknowledged or applauded for a deed well done -- if you have the choice, give the best or better portion away.

10. Let there be times when you don't tell someone everything you know about her problem, even if your understanding of it is better than hers.

11. When feeling displeased with someone, don't show your displeasure, and save any necessary correction for a later time.

12. There are times when the greatest strength (and kindness) one can possess is to allow another his weakness without pointing it out or otherwise punishing him for it.

Just a few last thoughts about this exercise to take with you: Remember that all spiritual practices are a means to self-discovery, and that discouragement, or any form of frustration, are secret indicators of some end we have in mind that has been thwarted. Lastly, keep in mind that everything true we discover about ourselves enlarges our relationship with life, and that there is no end to these relationships... just as Real Life is endless.

(Excerpted from "Seeker's Guide to Self-Freedom" by Guy Finley)

Guy Finley is the best-selling author of more than 40 books and audio albums on self-realization, including "The Secret of Letting Go," "The Essential Laws of Fearless Living," and his brand new book "The Secret of Your Immortal Self." He is the founder and director of Life of Learning Foundation, a nonprofit center for self-study located in southern Oregon where he gives talks four times each week. Guy is a faculty member at the Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, New York and is a regular expert contributor to Beliefnet and the Huffington Post. For more information and to download Guy's Free 60-minute MP3 seminar "Five Simple Steps to Make Yourself Fearless," visit http://www.GuyFinley.org/kit
Like This? (Click Me)
 Be the first person to like this
 Known Humans have read this.
Post a Comment   View Comments(0)
Did you enjoy this article? why not let us know.

Visit website for more info:
www.guyfinley.org






Share Page with Friends EmailBookmark and Share
Contact Me Contact Me
Request Delete/Amendment Request Amendment
Digg this article!
Delicious! Add this article to Del.icio.us!
Discuss Article on TheSpiritGuidesNetwork.co.uk Discuss Article on TheSpiritGuidesNetwork.co.uk

Post Article:
Submit Your Own Article

Leave a Comment

 

  
   
 


  


Enter the numbers shown above:

Comments

Copyright 2006-2013 TheSpiritGuides.co.uk
Tel: 07967 595893
A Mind Body Soul Directory and Spiritual Knowledge Site. Dedicated to Brenda Smith and all spiritual seekers out there.
0